Obituaries

John Hargrove
B: 1929-04-12
D: 2017-04-07
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Hargrove, John
Edmund Randall
B: 1925-01-02
D: 2017-04-01
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Randall, Edmund
Bishop Dr. Stanley Allen
B: 1930-09-02
D: 2017-03-25
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Allen, Bishop Dr. Stanley
Doreen Gayle
B: 1941-04-30
D: 2017-03-21
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Gayle, Doreen
James Goodman
B: 1926-07-18
D: 2017-04-01
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Goodman, James
Evelyn Roberts
B: 1919-03-07
D: 2017-04-02
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Roberts, Evelyn
U. Jeffrey McCray
B: 1925-03-27
D: 2017-03-23
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McCray, U. Jeffrey
Glenis Fields
B: 1953-12-09
D: 2017-03-18
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Fields, Glenis
Ninevah Riley
B: 1917-01-13
D: 2017-03-03
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Riley, Ninevah
Mable Drake
B: 1926-08-17
D: 2017-02-23
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Drake, Mable
Anna Laurent
B: 1924-10-19
D: 2017-02-15
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Laurent, Anna
Lawrence Moody
B: 1967-03-18
D: 2017-01-24
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Moody, Lawrence
Flora Daughtrey
B: 1930-07-07
D: 2017-02-02
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Daughtrey, Flora
Mary Royster
B: 1938-07-06
D: 2017-01-25
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Royster, Mary
Cyril Tyson
B: 1927-10-19
D: 2016-12-29
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Tyson, Cyril
Leola Bryant
B: 1936-09-09
D: 2017-01-08
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Bryant, Leola
Diane Diggs
B: 1945-05-28
D: 2017-01-05
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Diggs, Diane
Martha Collins
B: 1924-03-23
D: 2017-01-04
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Collins, Martha
Walter Kirton
B: 1943-10-20
D: 2016-12-28
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Kirton, Walter
Mavis Matewa
B: 1952-07-17
D: 2016-12-25
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Matewa, Mavis
Florence Tinnin
B: 1941-01-01
D: 2016-12-14
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Tinnin, Florence

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Are You the Responsible Family Member?

We’ve seen it happen time and again. The person making the initial call to our funeral home turns out not to be the one with the legal responsibilities of making decisions related to the care of a loved one.

While they may feel that they should be the one to make these choices, the law doesn’t recognize them as such – and so their voice can become effectively silenced.

If the deceased has not expressed their wishes, while living, specifically through NYS's APPOINTMENT OF AGENT TO CONTROL DISPOSITION OF REMAINS Form (pursuant to NYS Public Health Law, Section 4201, Subdivision 2) themselves, or through a written document such as a Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care, or a Last Will and Testament, where the deceased has designated an agent to fulfill their wishes; then the chain of command, formally called the “order of precedence”, is commonly as follows:

  • Legal Spouse/Partner
  • Surviving Adult Child/Children
  • Surviving Parent
  • Surviving Adult Sibling
  • Ex-Spouse
  • Parent of Minor Child

The person designated as the responsible party, whoever they may be, needs to be present to make decisions, and sign documents. If you are unclear as to who is the responsible person in planning a funeral for your loved one, call us.
 

The Critical Importance of Designating a Representative

If your loved one has yet to specify who they wish to be in control of their funeral service planning, and they are clear-headed enough to do so, now is the perfect time to take care of that task.

This is especially important if they think their relatives will not respect their funeral plans, or if they are on bad terms with them; do not know where they are, or do not have any living relatives.  

And, you might mention that appointing a specific person to arrange their funeral who is not a family member, but is deeply trusted, is a good way to ensure that their final wishes are carried out.

They can designate their choice by completing an Agent Form - download here NYS's APPOINTMENT OF AGENT TO CONTROL DISPOSITION OF REMAINS Form (pursuant to NYS Public Health Law, Section 4201, Subdivision 2). Should you have questions about doing so, call us, or speak with your family attorney.