Obituary for Nicole Marie Stansbury
Nicole Marie Stansbury was born on May 15,1974 to Lamont W. Stansbury Sr. (Peekskill) & Linda Stansbury (White Plains). Her education was within the White Plains School District and she received her Bachelor’s & Master’s degree from Fordham University.
Nicole was employed by the White Plains Youth Bureau as a camp director for the bits n piece program, Instructor for the Saturday Academy Program, and promoted to the Education Director of the Saturday Academy Program. After the Youth Bureau, Nicole became the Director of Youth & Community Services at the YWCA. She was a teacher, mentor, grant writer, dance & team mom. Nicole was an active member of Greater Centennial AME Zion Church, Mt. Vernon, NY.
On March 4, 2009, Nicole gave birth to Jayden S. Hairston. She was a loving and caring mother to her ”heartbeats” Jayden and Naseem.
On Thursday October 8, 2020 at Westchester Medical Center, Nicole was called home peacefully.
Nicole is survived by her mother Linda (White Plains); son Jayden (Elmsford); brother Lamont Jr. (White Plains); nephews Lamont (Ardsley) & Naseem (Elmsford); uncles Olney Reynolds Jr. {Mary (White Plains)} and Eric Reynolds (Kentucky); and aunt Wanda Reynolds (White Plains); Jonathan Hairston {father of Jayden (Yonkers)}; and a host of family and friends.
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ATTENTION: During this COVID-19 crisis, as we slowly begin to phase back into small capacity public visitations/services, we need your help in limiting and controlling the number of people inside the church AND cemetery. WE HAVE DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS FOR HER MEMORIAL SERVICE THIS TUESDAY 10/20 - PLEASE READ IN DETAIL BELOW BEFORE EVEN ATTEMPTING TO ATTEND ANYTHING PLEASE! Thank you so kindly!
A Memorial Service will be held on Tues., 10/20 at 11:30AM, with limited seating due to COVID restrictions. Guaranteed seating is only for those explicitly invited to attend the urn burial at Kensico. But there is a PUBLIC ZOOM of the service for all to see from anywhere (https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84753448230 Meeting ID: 847 5344 8230) - direct link to click on ZOOM is herein (on Photos/Videos tab above from desktop or below under Webcasting from cellphone). What is also being allowed, VERY LIMITED however, is minimal seats to attend the Memorial Service, ONLY until the church is at their LOWER CAPACITY based on COVID restrictions & required social distancing. So you may come to the church (Calvary Baptist Church, lower Banquet Hall, ENTER through Parking Lot on POST ROAD side of building) to try to attend, with your masks on, to this entrance ONLY. At the very least you can get hand sanitizer & sign the register book (NOTE: please feel free to bring your own pen). If not at capacity (based on above specified), you will be allowed in to have a seat for the Memorial Service; but if at capacity by the time you get there, you will be required to leave the premises after signing register book, so as not to be in violation nor cause a health hazard, so please govern yourself accordingly. Regardless of if you're able to enter/be seated, or not, social distancing MUST be maintained inside & outside at ALL times (NO touching/hugging/handshaking, ONLY elbow bumping briefly if at all). If instructed, PLEASE KINDLY RESPECTFULLY leave the building & premises if the church is at their restricted capacity. PLEASE KINDLY RESPECTFULLY follow & abide by the directions of the funeral home staff, church and/or cemetery personnel at all times. We Thank You in advance for following directions & NYS law, so as to make all go smoothly the day of the services, to eliminate further burden on the family, and to maintain the health & safety of All. Any questions, or if any clarity is needed, please call ahead to the funeral home and/or church, and/or speak to us from a safe distance if present.
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You MUST come to the church & cemetery wearing a mask, & wear a mask inside the church & at cemetery at all times. You must use hand sanitizer upon entering the church. If you know you have a coronovirus/COVID-19; are sick/experiencing symptoms of coronovirus/COVID-19; are immuno-compromised and/or have health/other conditions that make your body more susceptible to illness, please do NOT even attend any services nor come into the church nor to the cemetery. Please feel free to bring & use your own pen for signing the family's register book - you are encouraged to please BRING & use your own PEN for signing. Please follow & abide by the directions of the funeral home, church, and/or cemetery staff/personnel at ALL times, for the health & safety of All. Thank you!
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The Entire Staff of Lee's Funeral Home, LLC respects that the family of Nicole Marie Stansbury entrusted the care of their loved one to us, and that they value the level of service & attention our funeral home provides. We are honored, in turn, to provide comfort, assistance and service to the family of Nicole Marie Stansbury during their time of bereavement.
Please leave written and/or video condolences now herein on the Memory Wall to express your sorrow, share your memories, and as an expression of sympathy & way to communicate with/offer comfort to the family, that they and others may see, and may be a lasting tribute in her honor, whether you're able to attend or not.
As a lasting tribute, you may choose to plant a tree, and/or send flowers, and/or a contribution may be made in her name/memory/honor to a charity of your choice. If you're sending flowers, they may be delivered either on Mon. Oct. 19th, 2020 by/before 6:00PM to Lee's Funeral Home, or Tues. Oct. 20th by/before 11:00AM latest, to the church. Thank you!
Nicole was employed by the White Plains Youth Bureau as a camp director for the bits n piece program, Instructor for the Saturday Academy Program, and promoted to the Education Director of the Saturday Academy Program. After the Youth Bureau, Nicole became the Director of Youth & Community Services at the YWCA. She was a teacher, mentor, grant writer, dance & team mom. Nicole was an active member of Greater Centennial AME Zion Church, Mt. Vernon, NY.
On March 4, 2009, Nicole gave birth to Jayden S. Hairston. She was a loving and caring mother to her ”heartbeats” Jayden and Naseem.
On Thursday October 8, 2020 at Westchester Medical Center, Nicole was called home peacefully.
Nicole is survived by her mother Linda (White Plains); son Jayden (Elmsford); brother Lamont Jr. (White Plains); nephews Lamont (Ardsley) & Naseem (Elmsford); uncles Olney Reynolds Jr. {Mary (White Plains)} and Eric Reynolds (Kentucky); and aunt Wanda Reynolds (White Plains); Jonathan Hairston {father of Jayden (Yonkers)}; and a host of family and friends.
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ATTENTION: During this COVID-19 crisis, as we slowly begin to phase back into small capacity public visitations/services, we need your help in limiting and controlling the number of people inside the church AND cemetery. WE HAVE DETAILED INSTRUCTIONS FOR HER MEMORIAL SERVICE THIS TUESDAY 10/20 - PLEASE READ IN DETAIL BELOW BEFORE EVEN ATTEMPTING TO ATTEND ANYTHING PLEASE! Thank you so kindly!
A Memorial Service will be held on Tues., 10/20 at 11:30AM, with limited seating due to COVID restrictions. Guaranteed seating is only for those explicitly invited to attend the urn burial at Kensico. But there is a PUBLIC ZOOM of the service for all to see from anywhere (https://us02web.zoom.us/j/84753448230 Meeting ID: 847 5344 8230) - direct link to click on ZOOM is herein (on Photos/Videos tab above from desktop or below under Webcasting from cellphone). What is also being allowed, VERY LIMITED however, is minimal seats to attend the Memorial Service, ONLY until the church is at their LOWER CAPACITY based on COVID restrictions & required social distancing. So you may come to the church (Calvary Baptist Church, lower Banquet Hall, ENTER through Parking Lot on POST ROAD side of building) to try to attend, with your masks on, to this entrance ONLY. At the very least you can get hand sanitizer & sign the register book (NOTE: please feel free to bring your own pen). If not at capacity (based on above specified), you will be allowed in to have a seat for the Memorial Service; but if at capacity by the time you get there, you will be required to leave the premises after signing register book, so as not to be in violation nor cause a health hazard, so please govern yourself accordingly. Regardless of if you're able to enter/be seated, or not, social distancing MUST be maintained inside & outside at ALL times (NO touching/hugging/handshaking, ONLY elbow bumping briefly if at all). If instructed, PLEASE KINDLY RESPECTFULLY leave the building & premises if the church is at their restricted capacity. PLEASE KINDLY RESPECTFULLY follow & abide by the directions of the funeral home staff, church and/or cemetery personnel at all times. We Thank You in advance for following directions & NYS law, so as to make all go smoothly the day of the services, to eliminate further burden on the family, and to maintain the health & safety of All. Any questions, or if any clarity is needed, please call ahead to the funeral home and/or church, and/or speak to us from a safe distance if present.
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You MUST come to the church & cemetery wearing a mask, & wear a mask inside the church & at cemetery at all times. You must use hand sanitizer upon entering the church. If you know you have a coronovirus/COVID-19; are sick/experiencing symptoms of coronovirus/COVID-19; are immuno-compromised and/or have health/other conditions that make your body more susceptible to illness, please do NOT even attend any services nor come into the church nor to the cemetery. Please feel free to bring & use your own pen for signing the family's register book - you are encouraged to please BRING & use your own PEN for signing. Please follow & abide by the directions of the funeral home, church, and/or cemetery staff/personnel at ALL times, for the health & safety of All. Thank you!
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The Entire Staff of Lee's Funeral Home, LLC respects that the family of Nicole Marie Stansbury entrusted the care of their loved one to us, and that they value the level of service & attention our funeral home provides. We are honored, in turn, to provide comfort, assistance and service to the family of Nicole Marie Stansbury during their time of bereavement.
Please leave written and/or video condolences now herein on the Memory Wall to express your sorrow, share your memories, and as an expression of sympathy & way to communicate with/offer comfort to the family, that they and others may see, and may be a lasting tribute in her honor, whether you're able to attend or not.
As a lasting tribute, you may choose to plant a tree, and/or send flowers, and/or a contribution may be made in her name/memory/honor to a charity of your choice. If you're sending flowers, they may be delivered either on Mon. Oct. 19th, 2020 by/before 6:00PM to Lee's Funeral Home, or Tues. Oct. 20th by/before 11:00AM latest, to the church. Thank you!